I once attended a program where a couple walked in. The wife was tall, and the husband was quite short.
They weren’t newlyweds, they had been married for a while.
As they sat in front of me, I found myself wondering why many sisters struggle with marrying a man they are taller than.
You don’t want to marry a man you’re taller than.
You don’t want to marry a man you earn more than.
You don’t want to marry a man you’re more educated or more exposed than.
But you’ll gladly marry a man who is “above” you in those areas even if he’s an abus€r.
He talks to you anyhow.
He disrespects you.
He contr0ls you.
He may even raise his hands on you.
My sister, who did this to you?
Who a man is will shape your marriage far more than what he has. His character is what will either build your home or break it.
Yes, what he has matters but who he is matters more.
If you desire a peaceful and healthy marriage, you have no business marrying a man with abusiv€ or contr0lling tendencies just because he's above you in education, finances, or age.
I wish you well. #Michaelosita
They weren’t newlyweds, they had been married for a while.
As they sat in front of me, I found myself wondering why many sisters struggle with marrying a man they are taller than.
You don’t want to marry a man you’re taller than.
You don’t want to marry a man you earn more than.
You don’t want to marry a man you’re more educated or more exposed than.
But you’ll gladly marry a man who is “above” you in those areas even if he’s an abus€r.
He talks to you anyhow.
He disrespects you.
He contr0ls you.
He may even raise his hands on you.
My sister, who did this to you?
Who a man is will shape your marriage far more than what he has. His character is what will either build your home or break it.
Yes, what he has matters but who he is matters more.
If you desire a peaceful and healthy marriage, you have no business marrying a man with abusiv€ or contr0lling tendencies just because he's above you in education, finances, or age.
I wish you well. #Michaelosita
